| Apart from strengthening my physical/emotional bond wiht my partner,
what would I like to get out of sex for myself?: (Tick all that apply)
Physical release from stress
Physical pleasure
Emotional satisfaction
A sense of fun
Tenderness
Passion
A sense of being loved
An escape from reality
Other - (please explain)
What would i like more of in my sex life? (Tick all that apply)
Longer time spent on getting me aroused~
More Oral Sex
Having to do less of the hard work
A guaranteed orgasm each time
More spontaneity
A great sense of the "unexpected"
A greater sense of adventure
More 'Quality Time' in which to do it
More quantity
More romance and affection around the 'sex act'
Other - (please explain)
To increase the sexual excitement, I would like to (Tick all that
apply)
Make love using different positions
Do a slow strip-tease to music for my partner
Have a wrestling match to music
Make love in a different place (a different room, outside, ect)
Make love with the slight chance of discovery
Make love partially-clothed
Use sex toys
Act out a sexual fantasy
Other (please explain)
Remember this isnt the end of the conversation - you may find that you
are able to think of other ways that both of you may enjoy your
relationships.
Its better to be open with your partner and it is good to discuss your
needs with each other on a regular basis.
Good luck and enjoy!
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